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Reframing the “Shoulds”

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Tuesday, Feb 3, 2026

Reframing the "Shoulds"


The Action:
Catch a "should" in your mind. Replace it. Instead of "I should have done more," say: "I did what was possible with the energy I had today."

"For I know the plans I have for you... plans to prosper and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

— Jeremiah 29:11

The Grace Reset:
God's plan for you includes rest and hope, not just "doing." You are a human being, and you are allowed to have limits.

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